I would argue that finding someone who makes you feel sober when you are drunk is actually better, because it’s quite easy to find people who make you feel good; but remember, being drunk is only temporary, and what happens when you’re done being drunk? you get a hangover, and the pain from that is not worth the fun of being drunk, similar to how the pain after a “fun” relationship hurts more than that of a “sober” one, because a sober one may be boring, but it sure as hell beats unstable. Also, by finding someone who makes you feel sober while drunk, you have found someone who can add a sense of consciousness to your life at the very moment you need it most, because if you’re drunk, you can’t make proper decisions and are actually in a numbing state. Therefore, by implying that you have found someone who makes you sober whilst drunk, you have essentially found someone who can guide you and be there for you when your senses are at a loss, and you need stability the most. I don’t know about you, but I would choose someone who can build me up, rather than take me down any day.